The word 'Children' refers to a young cute ones that are not a baby that are born some days or month ago, also not a age of puberty to have a physical changes. This is also a stage of being childish just want to do whatever you want. For this cute little guys to teach serious things because they did bad things, you should not just give a punishment or boring lecture of nag. Than what are the ways for them? There is one great example with this, the 'spring', the movie I watched before. Maybe you have your own experience with parents about this like me. I would gonna talk about the feelings and experience of myself with the 'spring'.
This is a story of one boy and temple adult. Frisky boy, who doesn't have many acknowledge that are serious, have done mischief that are bad and not good for his future personalities. The temple adult have seen the mischief, made him to be sorry about victims that are sacrificed and to do not do it again.
Did you watch the videos? Have you ever had a experience like this situation at the 'spring'? Yes, probably and I did also. The boy at the 'spring' is frisky so he tied three animals, frog, fish, and snake, with a rope and stone. The adult of temple saw his all work that have done to animals and he also did the same to him when he was sleeping. At the morning, the boy realize that he had tied the stone on his back. The boy begged to untie it but the temple adult said he won't untie him until the tied animals became free. The boy went back to find them but unfortunately, the snake and fish had already died before! He felt sorry and with them, he cried a lot. He would never kill animals anymore. By this lesson, he would know how they felt with the stone. I think the temple adult did the good job. He made him, same as what he did to the animals so he could feel sorry to them, which refers to Empathy. He felt the same as the animals, have a stone on the back, so he had felt more sorry to them and not to do it anymore.
I also had a similar experience with this. I once liked to kill ants when I was kindergarten age. The method was just stepping on it. When other friends saw the ants, they called me to kill it. So, I was satisfied with this hobby. One day, my parents saw me killing ants by stepping it on, they made a plan to stop me. I strangely liked praying mantis that time, my mom stepped on the mantis while I was looking. That time I felt sad because my mantis died. Next day, my father was holding one picture with adorable looking like my picture. I saw that picture and I was shocked....It was an ant. Father said he loves ants very much. That time, I felt sorry to father because I killed them by stepping without any sadness to my father. That time, I decided to not kill the ants and I still don't.
In conclusion, I think children are so pure souls ,so they can do whatever they want. Like the things that adult say it is impossible. I think it is children's good personality. To start without any worries but having a new challenge! But the world is not perfect to be fit with these pure souls, there are some bad things that they can't. The way to adjust them is not just nagging or hitting them but make them to feel sorry and decide whether do or not. If you make them to have empathy, that means you did a good job. Feeling same because of harsh condition will be the best one to teach your children. Just boring lecture, hitting and slapping, no, no, it will be harsh to you and your children.
Hi Lily. It was interesting how you defined children in the beginning. Also, you gave a nice summary of the film. However, I would like to have you explain more about your similar experience and how you felt about it. :)
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